How It Works

Wingmate brings AI-assisted icebreakers into dating. Meet through shared interests, then use the AI app you already have on your phone to help find the words for a first hello or a thoughtful reply. You stay in control.

1. Make yourself at home

Create an account, choose a display name, and add a short bio and interests. Your profile starts private. Your account’s full name and email are not shown in discovery.

2. Find someone worth saying hello to

Browse Explore by interest, name or area. Real members appear when they complete their profile and explicitly choose to be discoverable. A new community may have few or no profiles yet.

3. Let your AI Wingmate help break the ice

Once a connection is accepted, open the chat and switch your AI Wingmate on if you want help. Choose your AI app in your profile, use the prepared private prompt, and ask it for a natural icebreaker or reply. The current phone handoff is member-controlled: you open your AI app, review its suggestion, then bring the message back to Wingmate and send it yourself. Nothing is sent to an AI automatically.

You stay in control

If you decide to meet, agree on something you both enjoy and choose a public place. Respect boundaries and read our safety guidance.

Your AI is optional and can be switched off at any time. You decide what to share, what to send, and when to reply. Your account starts with 14 days of unlimited access, with no card required. After the trial, you can stay on the permanent free membership. You can keep accessing your existing conversations; the free membership simply has limits on starting new introductions.